Grief Unscripted

My Life with Love

This is a placeholder for the first entry. I’m not entirely sure yet what this space will become. Maybe it will be a place to tell stories about Suzzaynne. Maybe it will be a place to write about love, grief, memory, death, and whatever comes after. Maybe it will...

The Day the Earth Stood Still

There are dates that divide a life into before and after, and May 16, 2026, is mine. Suzzaynne died at about 3:30 that morning. Even writing those words still feels strange. They are simple words describing something that happened, and they are factually true, yet...

The Day after Tomorrow

Where do I go when there is nowhere to go? For a long time, there was always a tomorrow. Even during Suzzaynne's illness, when tomorrow became frightening and uncertain, it still existed as something we were moving toward together. There was another appointment,...
My Life with Love

My Life with Love

This is a placeholder for the first entry. I’m not entirely sure yet what this space will become. Maybe it will be a place to tell stories about Suzzaynne. Maybe it will be a place to write about love, grief, memory, death, and whatever comes after. Maybe it will...

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The Day the Earth Stood Still

The Day the Earth Stood Still

There are dates that divide a life into before and after, and May 16, 2026, is mine. Suzzaynne died at about 3:30 that morning. Even writing those words still feels strange. They are simple words describing something that happened, and they are factually true, yet...

read more
The Day after Tomorrow

The Day after Tomorrow

Where do I go when there is nowhere to go? For a long time, there was always a tomorrow. Even during Suzzaynne's illness, when tomorrow became frightening and uncertain, it still existed as something we were moving toward together. There was another appointment,...

read more

Dale Kazdan

Thoughts and musing about the concept of personal grief and loss.

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